Hey guys pls help me out I donno what to do , my heart is bleeding?

I am divorced in 30's. I meet this guy online I like him a lot


we both agreed on just being friends.


we meet couple of times outside and 3rd time he had sex (both wanted this)


now I see that his profile is still active and he is still looking out for other people but he tells me that he is very shy and don't approach girls .


this is hurting me a lot but I don't want ask him if he wants to be serious with me as I fear of losing him . what should I do I'm very new to dating in USA as I belong to another country


usually do guys or girls take initiative in asking the question about serious relationship.

Hey guys pls help me out I donno what to do , my heart is bleeding?
well you agreed to be friends and then you had sex but hes not said anything about whats going on.


you need to talk to him and ask him whats going on, tell him you have feeling for him but if your not what hes looking for then he should tell you now so you both can move on.


trust me it will save you pain in the long run.


but he might really like you now who knows.


good luck..xx
Reply:if your heart is bleeding then put a band-aid on it, to stop the bleeding....... maybe that'll help...
Reply:guys usually do the asking but if u want to know my opinion i say ask him
Reply:um....I'm only 14...





But I'm pretty positive online dating 99% of the time is NOT the way to go unless you want to get raped, diseased, hurt or possibly killed. I would watch out....
Reply:It doesn't matter who takes the initiative, just ask him O.o
Reply:u said u agreed to being friends, then how come u are affected? so why don't u talk it over, and tell him what u feel.
Reply:Girls do. Do it.
Reply:You may have to sit down and talk to him about it. Be honest about the way you feel.
Reply:Well now its ok for a girl to ask a guy out, so dont worry.
Reply:tough, that's just plain rude man, ad the guys a jerk, let him go, he's not worthy of you. You actually want to hang on to this type of character . Tell him it's over and see how he reacts.
Reply:beats the hell outta me. if I knew the answer I wouldn't be 51 and alone.
Reply:just act like you're already serious without asking or consulting him
Reply:Ask, and get it clarified. Otherwise youll end up getting more hurt the longer you drag it out.
Reply:I don't know how it is where u are from but in the U.S it's all about equality (supposedly). Girls and guys make the first move. People who expect women to do certain things and guys to do certain things are generally looked upon. If u like someone then don't be afraid to tell them.