Sunday, May 16, 2010

My Heart Is Bleeding, Any Tips For Recovery?

i love this girl. And right now she's seeing my best mate. it hurts a lot seeing them both together. i was her "so called best friend". i couldn't tell her abt my feelings bcoz there were obstacles like money and religion. moreover, i wasn't sure if it was love or infatuation. So, when she told me she kinda liked my best mate, i hooked them up despite the pain in my heart. when i heard from her that my best frnd asked her out, i was in deep pain. thts when i realized it was no mere infatuation. i guez im in love with her. it is quite hard for me to keep something called love hidden in my heart. but i have keep it in my heart because theres no way i can have her. my heart's broken! what do i do?

My Heart Is Bleeding, Any Tips For Recovery?
Nursing a broken heart is not easy...believe me I've been there. There is no easy way to advise you on tips of recovery cos getting over someone you love is not easy and it's worse in your case cos she's seeing your mate.They say time heals broken hearts.I must however commend you on the fact that you seem to accept that she is seeing your best mate despite your pain.You know the best way to show your love for this girl is by doing exactly what you have done...let her go. Maybe one way of helping you recover is to be happy that she's happy with your mate? I'm sure you care enough for them both and you'd like to see them happy. It takes courage and i believe you've already taken the step in the right direction.Sometimes loving someone so much means sacrificing our own happiness....maybe it would help if you saw less of your mate and this girl and try to find something to do that will take your mind off things....don't know if you have any hobbies but it could be a start or perhaps take a holiday somewhere you've always wanted to go but you also need to take care of yourself it's not easy what you are going through...if it is any consolation....they say there is always a light at the end of the tunnel and i pray that this be true for you...
Reply:Love from a far. Stand in the lurches and siege the moment.
Reply:Try to think about other things, and maybe try to see someone else. You know you can't be with her anytime in the near future, so my best advice is do what you need to do to get over it.
Reply:My favourite guys when I get my heart ripped out of my a**hole are Ben and Jerry.





You've got the extra added complication of the fact that she's now with your best mate so you're gonna have to leave that girl alone. Good luck, I know it hurts.
Reply:what kind of love you have let her be free if she love you she will come back
Reply:for your own good, ditch them both and don't say why
Reply:one advice - listen to your heart lol


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