Please Help! My heart is bleeding. Anyone with kind words of wisdom is desperately needed!!?

I’m in pain right now. I’ve been mentally beaten down by someone I cared about. My boyfriend and I got in a drunken fight on the phone last night and he said the most hurtful things. He told me that he never really cared about me and his feelings were all a facade. He then told me that I have problems in a very condescending way. This was all after I told him how I felt about him. It was like he was spitting daggers because he felt challenged. I was bulimic for 8 years and have been recovered now for 1 year. He knows that I deal with depression and he knows that I have “issues”. It’s like he took my most insecure secrets and used them against me. I’m in therapy and have been doing so well but lately if been stagnate in my recovery because of him. I used to be strong, I was on the right path to self discovery but he’s broken me down. I suffer from severe co-dependency issues and I don’t know how to break away from him. Good or bad I get addicted to someone and can’t leave.

Please Help! My heart is bleeding. Anyone with kind words of wisdom is desperately needed!!?
Never let a man beat you down to a point of no return. No man is ever worth that. People tend to say things when they are drunk. Sometimes its good but most of the time its bad. Feelings and emotions never mix with alcohol. You say that you were strong. I think all women are strong. Sometimes we women just lose sight of things doesn't make you weak. I think you need time to yourself. You need to reevaluate your life. See what you want out of life and who DESERVES to be in your life. Keep up with your therapy it will really help you. Good luck to you and I hope all goes well.
Reply:Well I feel sorry for you,just dont think about it for the time..let a day or 2 go and then call him and say your sorry.


Just dont beat yourself up right now..this will take you back to square one of depression...dont let that happen..just get a grip on yourself..take a relaxing bath..listen to some clam soothing music and sleep.
Reply:I would suggest that you discuss your co-dependency issues with your psychiatrist. Together you should be able to map out a strategy where you will be able to keep the bad guy out of your life. Because he is wasting your time and money. You spend money on a psychiatrist and work on your issues just to have this horrible person tear you down again.
Reply:You were both drunk. Remember that. And drunken people will say the most absurd things. Remember that too!!





Then go talk to him and see how he feels. If he regrets anything that was said, forgive each other and move on.





If he continues with the same feelings, then you should move on and find someone who will truly love you!
Reply:You have to remember that he was drunk and that people say things that they don't mean when they drink I'm sure that he really didn't mean any of what he was saying and that he was probaly having a bad night when he called you you need to call him and see if what he said over the phone was really what he felt
Reply:talk to him and see if he could forgive you and come back. if he returns then you know that he actually love you for what you are.