I went out with a girl for 3 years and straight away we started talking about marriage, she did alot for me and so did I for her...in 3 years I could have had sex so many times but I told her I'll wait because i love you too much...we did argue over pity things, but anyways she then met my family....and few months later we had a arguement and stopped talking for 2 months...I went to see her and she says 2 me its too late now, im engaged (to an accountant)...a guy came to my house and i didnt say yes and didnt say no, I cant hurt my parents nomore and cried and cried!
its beens months now since I heard anything,she said dont contact me cus it hurts me, just go. its hard to make me cry but lately iv been crying non stop, we talked about kids and everything....dont know what to do I cant do anything, I can barely move, im so hurt.
she cried alot, im not sure what to believe, she did alot 4 me aswel....i tried everything and she said i cant because shes hurt her parents 2 much and cried
My hearts bleeding...please help?
2 months after you stopped talking and she was engaged? i think all those arguments were a way to break up with you from the start. IMO she was cheating this whole time OR, very unlikely but another possibility she just feels insecure about your relationship
Reply:you should let her go now...
she is about to start a new life and u goin back to her n trying to call her again n again will make it hard for her... stop doing this.... if you realize that it was your mistake you live with it and let her live her life now....
dont go back to her to it will make her more confused.... it will make things worse for her... if you love her then its time to let go... maybe it was not ur destiny to be together man, now live with it and let her live too... you will feel happy if you see her happy wont you? and she can only be when you let her go completely... she has someone and her family's honor to protect now ... dont make it hard for her man....
and stop being a wuss and stop crying this is life accept it and move on only with a regret in your heart and not on your face!.... your mistake you bear it dont share it with her!
where are you two from???? which country??
Reply:Three years a long time for a relationship without some sort of commitments like engagement. I think she has moved on and found someone who will give her the "marriage" she wanted which she didnt get while with you. If you love her let her go unless you are prepared to marry her and that doesnt mean just talking about marriage.
Reply:oh man, that's rough. Are you 100% sure she was already engaged after 2 months apart?! If true, that is extremely wrong, instead of missing you she was out looking for your replacement. That says it all to me, but that's why I want to know if it's true. A lot of girls will play with your emotions and feed you BS to make you jealous, to make you think they are happy and all is dandy, when it really isn't.
Hmm.... most people are going to tell you not to go back, but I think that if you don't try one more time, you're going to always wonder what would have happened had you tried, so go give it one more time, think of everything you want to say and do before you talk to her so you nail it all. But you can only chase someone for so long, if she doesn't come around this time, let her go, which is easier said than done, but you can't sit around pinning for her for the rest of your life. Good luck man, you need it
Reply:if the love is real it will work out maybe it just means patience if you feel you cant move on dont just wait for your heart to heal but dont focus soley on this go to college or something productive because it will take time on the other hand maybe you just need to go for it you will figure it out right its your life
Reply:it seems, that maybe she had someone else on the side, or that she had a very short relationship after u broke up, and they rushed into things.
it seems that you have nothing u can do, you need to respect her wishes, and let her move on with her life, as hard as it seems =[
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