How long does a bleeding heart heal? Can you ...?

withstand the pain day after day? How? Is it true that it will make you a better person? Tell me how!

How long does a bleeding heart heal? Can you ...?
the healthier your outlook for yourself, the quicker your heart will heal. The better person part should come with what you learn and how you might positively apply it to your life from that point forward. This obviously does nothing for your current pain but rest assured, this will be behind you and you can live looking to a happy future without looking back.
Reply:it doesn't make you a better person, just a little bit wiser person, and more cautious
Reply:i am going through the same thing i would like to know
Reply:i don't know but my heart has been broken too much
Reply:It takes a long as it takes and the more you loved the longer it will be until the healing----- Does it make you a better person - I don't know about that - sometimes it makes a person bitter - sometimes it makes a person empathetic - some of us come out knowing what pain is and try not to inflict it on others and some of us just want everyone to hurt the way we did. Odd isn't it.??
Reply:i had my heart hurt to first win my husband passed away then i healed from that i found someone he hurt me real bad all i can say is time well heal and yes it well make you strong because you well be more careful hopefully and dont let your gaurd down you well heal in time and be strong
Reply:no but stronger maybe....after 5 yrs i will still love my soulmate forever....it wont die but i married another person
Reply:Bleeding heals on with time.. heart bleeds on sensitivities and sensitivity is most precisions things in these human world.. one positive move on the same can lead you to greatest of a human being so look for a positive side of your heart bleeding.. idea is to be positive on even with the pain.. time heals all wounds and time supports all good human being.. its nature and nature cares for all.. so cheer up on everything you have now and for a good time ahead after this..
Reply:It takes quite a while sometimes. But stay busy, that helps. And meet people and interact with them. That helps too. It won't necessarily make you a better person but you will have more respect for youself because you will know you have dealt with a painful ordeal and survived.
Reply:yes it will make you stonger,and their is no time limit on how long it will take to heal
Reply:Well, it depends on the person. But normally lasts a day- a month, depending on how many times this has happened befroe. As for now, take a bubble bath, eat A TON of chocolate, and listed to some music. Soon you'll be sourounded by you're own normal thoughts and will forget all about him.
Reply:It took me FIVE years to stop crying at least ONCE a day after my Mom died. So I would have to say it takes 5 years for a bleeding heart to stop bleeding but it will always have a scar, I'm sorry. As far as making you in a better person, I think its different for everyone. Yes, it made me a better person because I have so much more compassion than I ever did before. pick up a bible and start reading, that's what I did and it has helped the scar on my heart. Blessing 2 U !


Frog-Leggs from Portland
Reply:there is really no time limit on how fast one heals, after being hurt. after awhile it does indeed make one stronger, but not without a cost, and much hurt. it makes one stronger, more able to withstand disappointments, your able to cope better after awhile with life in general, plus you get smarter, and see reality the next time alot easier.
Reply:well, i hope your heart isn't really bleeding
Reply:Sorry that you feel like your heart is bleeding. All hurt take time to get over.
Reply:Not much info. Make you better for what? the next episode of bs? I would love to kick gods *** for this feeling, it's more pain than I can endure. Hang in sweetheart time is on your side. E-mail me and scream and cuss and cry, that's what I do. I don't even kn ow you and I hurt for you.
Reply:I am on my 3rd year.


It still is no better. I don't cry like I use to though. I am stronger and better....just don't allow yourself to get bitter.


I know WE can help that...it's in our thinking. Think GOOD thoughts. Do not go over and over in your mind.





you are not alone.


Email me anytime if you need a friend.


I am sorry honey.
Reply:just give it time. time heals all !! ~~ jas